This weekend in Paris I had the privilege of speaking about sustainable performance and well-being at the iDIAS Global Conferences on women’s leadership.
Standing on stage as a keynote speaker - and receiving this award afterwards - was a beautiful moment of external recognition. I’m grateful to the organizers and to everyone in the room for the thoughtful conversations that followed.
And yes… external validation feels good. It’s a nice reminder for the ego.
But it also reinforced something I’ve learned the hard way.
Earlier in my career, external validation was exactly what drove me: proving myself, achieving the next milestone, meeting expectations. For a long time, that pursuit quietly pushed me closer to burnout.
Today, my perspective is very different.
External validation is welcome, but no longer necessary.
Internal validation - understanding your energy, your limits, and what truly matters - is what creates sustainable success.
And crucially, it doesn’t mean losing your drive. It’s still absolutely fine (and needed) to aim high, to achieve big things - but when that drive is aligned with your energy and what’s right for you, it becomes sustainable, energizing, and allows you to keep performing at your best.
That’s the shift I’m passionate about helping leaders and organizations make: moving from high performance at any cost to sustainable high performance that fuels continued growth and energy.
Another powerful reminder from this weekend: community matters. Being in a room with so many thoughtful leaders who care about well-being, leadership and sustainable success was incredibly energizing.
More reflections (and some official footage from the event) will follow soon.
In the meantime: if this message resonates and your organization is exploring sustainable leadership, well-being or burnout prevention, I’d be happy to stay connected and continue the conversation.
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Intentional action builds success. Sustainable energy keeps it.
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