School Readiness is What You Think.
If a child starts school developmentally behind, they don’t just catch up.
They struggle quietly.
They feel different.
School moves quickly.
They struggle quietly.
Instructions get longer.
Sitting still gets expected.
Listening becomes constant.
Independence is assumed.
If a child’s language, emotional regulation, or attention isn’t ready -
they can’t do what everyone else is doing.
And here’s what happens next.
They watch.
They copy.
They guess.
They start to believe they’re not as clever.
By Year 3 or 4, it doesn’t look like “school readiness” anymore.
It looks like:
• Low confidence
• Avoidance
• Rushing
• Behaviour issues
• “Careless mistakes”
But the root was earlier.
School readiness is not about reading at four.
It’s about:
Can they listen and hold instructions?
Can they regulate when frustrated?
Can they express what they don’t understand?
Can they separate confidently from you?
If those foundations aren’t there, the academic gap widens over time.
And waiting doesn’t slow school down.
It speeds up.
This isn’t about pressure.
It’s about preparation.
Parents matter more than they’re told.
If the brain is busy coping, it isn’t learning, then they fall behind.
Save this. You’ might need it later.
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